{"id":767,"date":"2010-10-15T11:52:06","date_gmt":"2010-10-15T16:52:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/calebripple.com\/blog\/?p=767"},"modified":"2010-10-15T11:52:06","modified_gmt":"2010-10-15T16:52:06","slug":"smooth-words-for-hard-hearts","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/calebripple.com\/blog\/smooth-words-for-hard-hearts\/","title":{"rendered":"Smooth Words for Hard Hearts"},"content":{"rendered":"

The following is an excerpt from a book by Pastor Doug Wilson<\/a> entitled\u00a0Mother Kirk, Essays on Church Life<\/a>.<\/em> The chapter is “Thundering the Word” and this section is “Smooth Words for Hard Hearts”. \u00a0I believe this message is extremely relevant for us and i’m going to quote it verbatim. \u00a0The emphasis added is mine.<\/p>\n

“Much more remains to be said on the subject of our antipathy to biblical preaching. \u00a0Far from revealing an excessive tenderness, it reveals just the opposite.<\/p>\n

We live in an era which places a high value on hardness of heart. \u00a0We can tell this by our love of soft teaching. <\/em>Of course this is not how we describe it inwardly. \u00a0In speaking to ourselves, when we generally have a most appreciative audience, we have great affection for smooth words, words which go down easily. \u00a0Jeremiah talked about this. \u00a0“They have healed also the hurt of the daughter of my people slightly, saying, Peace, peace; when there is no peace” (Jer. 6:14).<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

We like to believe that this love of soft words, words which will trouble neither the mind nor the heart, nor anything in between, is a deep love of tenderness. \u00a0Such a conviction flatters us, but our love is actually the opposite of tenderness.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

If our hearts were a slab of concrete, and we wanted to keep them that way, our desire to have them caressed with a feather duster would exhibit no love of tenderness, but rather the contrary. \u00a0The one who really wanted a tender heart would be calling for the jackhammer.<\/strong> <\/em>Hard words, hard teaching, are the jackhammer of God. \u00a0It takes a great deal to break up our hard hearts, and the God of all mercy is willing to do it. \u00a0But He always does it according to His Word, and His Word is not as easy on us as we would like. \u00a0“Is not My word like as a fire? saith the Lord; and like a hammer that breaketh the rock in pieces?” (Jer. 23:29).<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

When Christians call for smooth words, easy words, the result is hard people. \u00a0When we submit to hard words, we become the tenderhearted of God. \u00a0But let soft words have their way in a congregation, let soft words dominate the pulpit, and hardness of heart begins to manifest itself in countless ways\u2014but the common denominator is always that of granite hearts. \u00a0Marriages dissolve, heresies proliferate, parents abandon children, churches split, children heap contempt on their parents, quarrels erupt on the elder board and in the choir, bitterness, rancor, envy, and malice abound\u2014and all because the people will not abide that loathsome jackhammer, “Thou shalt not.”<\/p>\n

We have come to the point\u2014both in the church and nation\u2014where anyone who speaks a hard word is automatically assumed to be displaying his own hard heart. \u00a0He is harsh and divisive. \u00a0He is unloving. \u00a0Like Ahab, we do not like the prophet who tends to disrupt the general bonhomie of the courtiers and kept prophets. \u00a0“And the king of Israel said unto Jehosaphat, Did I not tell thee that he would prophesy no good concerning me but evil?” \u00a0(1 Kgs. 22:18).<\/p>\n

We have lost the antithesis and therefore have forgotten that no virtue can be found in an intransitive verb. \u00a0We think that it is good simply for a man to love, for example, forgetting that it depends entirely upon what <\/em>he loves. \u00a0After all, John told us to love not the world, or the things in it. \u00a0We believe it is a sin to hate, forgetting that this depends upon what we hate. \u00a0Is the hatred according to the Word or not? \u00a0We think that it is a virtue to tolerate, forgetting that the Lord Jesus rebuked a church for tolerating that woman Jezebel. \u00a0Everything hinges on what we are tolerating, and our global love for smooth words indicates that what we are mostly tolerating is our own hardness of heart.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

<\/em>Of course, because life is never simple, we must acknowledge that there is a type of harsh language which dishonors God and embitters our neighbor. \u00a0And we also know that there is a type of soft answer which turns away wrath. \u00a0We know that many cantankerous Christians have defended their sin in the guise of Valiant-for-Truth. \u00a0Far from trying to smooth these words into an easy fit for us, we must take them as they come, and simply submit to them. \u00a0There are certain kinds of hard words which belong to the devil, and our speech should always be gracious and seasoned with salt.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Nevertheless, the one who speaks as Jesus and the apostles did, the one who seeks to imitate the discourse of Scripture, will soon find himself verbally opposed to sin. \u00a0Sometimes the sin is visible and concrete, and other times it is harder to identify\u2014as when a man sins theologically by refusing to accept what God has taught us in Scripture. \u00a0And when that has happened, the one who reproves such sin will immediately be condemned as troublemaker in the the gates of Zion, a pestilent fellow. \u00a0We want to keep our hearts the way they were.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

But we need men who wake up in the morning knowing what they believe. \u00a0We need men committed to truth in principle, men willing to be unpopular in certain compromised quarters. \u00a0We need men committed to the authority of truth over us, men who know that debate and discussion are a moral imperative. \u00a0In an age as compromised as ours, this can only serve to increase unpopularity. \u00a0But the authority of truth means that hard study was not just a matter of scholarship chasing its tail. \u00a0Questions are to be raised for the sake of finding answers. \u00a0A wise pastor knows that splitting the difference between the right answer and the wrong answer will only result in another wrong answer. \u00a0This mentality is not the province of a particular personality type. \u00a0It is the inheritance of all the saints who would contend earnestly for the faith. \u00a0May God rails up many more such saints within the Church who are hungry for truth, along with men who are willing to preach to them<\/strong><\/em>.”<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Word are important, we must comprehend what it means for our speech to be gracious and seasoned with salt\u2014when to use hard words and when to use soft words. \u00a0We need to be studious to see the different ways and the different genres of speech the Bible uses and how it reveals that this Truth can and should be conveyed, with that as our purpose and intention\u2014proclaiming the Truth.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

The following is an excerpt from a book by Pastor Doug Wilson entitled\u00a0Mother Kirk, Essays on Church Life. The chapter is “Thundering the Word” and this section is “Smooth Words for Hard Hearts”. \u00a0I believe this message is extremely relevant for us and i’m going to quote it verbatim. \u00a0The emphasis added is mine. “Much […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[62],"tags":[100,24,101],"class_list":["post-767","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-recommended","tag-doug-wilson","tag-truth","tag-words"],"aioseo_notices":[],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p5C2eY-cn","amp_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/calebripple.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/767","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/calebripple.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/calebripple.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/calebripple.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/calebripple.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=767"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/calebripple.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/767\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/calebripple.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=767"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/calebripple.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=767"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/calebripple.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=767"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}